From “Not Good Enough” to “Too Much”
Growing up with emotionally immature parents often means growing up with some confusing, painful beliefs about yourself.
You might find yourself feeling like you’re never quite enough for people … but also somehow way too much at the same time.
It’s exhausting - and it’s not your fault.
Shame: The Emotion That Wasn’t Yours To Carry
Shame is one of those feelings that can stick to you like glue - quiet, heavy, and hard to name.
You might not always notice it’s there, but it can show up in your inner voice, your relationships, and the way you see yourself.
If you grew up with emotionally immature parents, there’s a good chance you’ve been carrying shame that was never truly yours to begin with.
The Difference Between Healthy and Toxic Guilt
Guilt is a natural emotion that plays a crucial role in our moral and emotional development. When experienced in a healthy way, guilt helps us recognise when we have made a mistake, encouraging us to make amends and grow as individuals. It strengthens relationships by promoting empathy, accountability, and ethical decision-making.